Unfortunately there is no good way to measure the quantity of oil in the system. Some oil loss is expected if the system is leaking, but is almost immeasurable. You can get a slight idea of how much oil is in the accumulator by drilling a small hole in the bottom of the container after removal and letting the oil contained in it drain into a measuring container.
Generally you will want to put the oil directly into the replacement compressor, but as to quantity, refer to your underhood HVAC label to establish the total system quantity (assuming the label has this info). If, for example, the system holds 8 oz, put between 3 and 4 ounces into the compressor. Put 2 ounces into the new accumulator (you did buy one with the compressor right?). The remainder can be distributed to either the evap or condenser. The main thing to accomplish here is to make sure there is sufficient oil throughout the system so the compressor isn't starved for oil.
By the by, as stated above, if the old compressor seized or "grenaded" (very likely), be prepared to replace just about everything. At the minimum you probably have black death in the system. At worse, you have metal shavings throughout the system. The condenser cannot be completely flushed if so. A/C repair and cheap are very seldom ever seen in the same sentence...
92 Ranger w/ locked-up compressor
$200 - reman compressor
$35 - accumulator
$30 - Variable orifice tube (not required but enhanced performance)
$115 - Evaporator core
$140 - Condenser
$130 - 2 line sets (accumulator to compressor to condenser) ( condenser to evap)
$18 - 2 cans 134a
$10 - jumbo can (32oz?) Ester oil
Months of aggrivation for not replacing the pressure switch when I replaced everything else...$$$Priceless$$$