I was paying all of those things. Still didn't stop me from occasionally being an idiot. Drinking beer with my buddies and then outrunning the local cops cause we were under age. At least I got rid of the crappy Cyclone headers I had and then put on a new set of BlackJack AK5000s. All the repairs came straight out of my working at McDonalds pockets. Remember back then minimum wage wasn't $7.25 per hour either. Fortunately I still lived at home.
I worked at McDonalds back at $6.25/hour minimum wage and had to drive 30 miles to work everyday. I was driving a very offroad capable truck at the time (1989 Mazda B2600i 4x4) but when its your only vehicle to get to work, and don't have the money to work on it to begin with, you would tend to take care of your stuff better than someone who isn't paying for anything.
Drinking leads to a lot of stupidity, which is one reason I don't drink, the other being I can't afford it. I see enough stupid people out there that drink and do really dumb things I get more laughs at them being sober watching their stupidity its a lot better than watching television. Its real life reality TV with front row seats.
Maybe this is why all of the vehicles I've owned over the years have really high mileage and very little maintenance problems other than normal oil/filter changes, because I don't beat the crap out of my vehicles.
I find it funny the people I talk to that go out every weekend offroading, then they're back in town and come monday morning they're at the auto parts store because they broke this that and the other, then they're whining and crying because they're vehicles are always screwed up, and that they are always having money issues.
I don't have any sympathy for people like that, go out and purposely destroy their vehicle then want others to feel bad for them. Sorry not gonna happen. I'd feel more sorry for the vehicle than the person who wrecked it being bone headed.